AMALAYER???

What are the usual lies women tell? Do guys believe it? Do they doubt? 

Girls, next time we could include in our spiel if ever guys doubts..."So you think amalayer?" hahah. 

But seriously, here are 5 LIES - ALL women tell, got it from site - MensXP

I am guilty about this and it's not because I don't want to express or tell my true feelings. Most situation is girls don't want to fight. For we know that if we blurt out what we really feel...men should prepare! THIS IS WAR! hahah pero hindi naman lahat. Others would like to keep it to themselves, to avoid confrontation or just to let the guys know that somehow we're strong enough to keep things to ourselves too but it does not lead to a healthy relationship. 

Eto na ang MALA-AMALAYER lines ng mga girls. :)

1. "I am not mad at you."

Definitely amalayer line! When she does tell this to men, they better behave or else it'll get worst. Girls only tell this when they need to keep calm for awhile but deep inside they're absolutely burning with MADNESS!!! What's worst is when guys would keep on asking the same question if we, girls are mad at them or not. They wouldn't be content, they would even ask our girlfriends to know the reason - "Galit ba sya? Alam mo ba kung bakit?  The safest way to absorb this lie is to accept that their partner is mad at them, then it would be based on the situation on why she is mad at him. 

2. "You we're great!"

If you "actually" were great, she wouldn't necessarily say it.Instead she'll show it. Observe her, the smile, the look and the gratitude she does for you because YOU ARE GREAT! Admit it, men would like to be praise, it lifted them up, they feel more manly and women knows how to appraise men either in words or in action. Well both sides do. But if she tells you how great you were and raves and rants about it, chances are you were only but mediocre and she is just being nice.

3. "Be honest. I can take it!"

Boohoo! she tells this then when you say the truth she became sad, moody, on rage or cries a river of tears. 

What are the questions women usually asks? 

"Do I look fat in this?" "Does this look good to me?" etc.

It's a trap. Definitely no escape. Any answer or no answer at all would troubled her. The truth is she cannot take your honesty. And if you lie blatantly, she'll catch you on it. So the trick here is to be moderate in your response: not too flowery, not too mean. 

Honestly speaking girls can tell whether her man is being appreciative and really admiring her. She feels more beautiful and even if she does not ask she can get a compliment from him. 

4. "I'm not jealous."

Oh common! If girls are not jealous they don't need to utter these words. The truth is, playful jealousy is fun. necessary even to keep the relationship going. So when she says she is not jealous, smile and kiss her cheek. She'll forget being jealous and she'll just blush. 

5. "I never think of my ex..."

Lie. Lie. Lie. I'm writing this now and I'm thinking about the last guy I dated. Poof! I need to get back to work. 

Everyone think of their ex. At some point or the other we are somehow driven back in time. It's okay to think about her ex once in awhile, because it's normal to do so. Hopefully there's no comparison! 

In a relationship, both parties have their flaws. 

In a healthy relationship, whether she's mad at him, she compliments him or not, she can't take his honesty, she's jealous or even think or her ex...this things doesn't bother him at all. The guy who loves a girl would definitely know how to keep her calm, compliment her, be honest with her without hurting her, trusting her being faithful and loving her completely.

So even if at times we became amalayers , real men still knows how to handle it and sweep us of our feet. <3

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