Tuesday, April 17, 2012

wedding preps...

Proposals...Engagements...Preparation...THE DAY...

A lot of my friends are in this stage already...and recently a very good childhood friend of mine invited me on her upcoming wedding this year...wooaaaahhh...wait a minute AM I BEING LEFT BEHIND??? Naaaahh... I don't think so. Well, I still have a lot to prove on me being the SINGLE type...a lot of things to do and to explore...it wouldn't be bad to do it with someone special to me but I don't see it as my priority...

Anyway, this is not about me...this is for my friend MAICA who's getting married soon...and I am so happy for her!!! :) I have been an assistant wedding coordinator and somehow I have some ideas about wedding preps...here's a checklist for her who's getting married in less than 3 months. I hope this could be a help on her wedding preparation. :)

I found this site and probably could do some help for the others as well. I just did some revisions...hope this would help whether you're the one getting married or would love to help a friend who's getting married like me. :)

LDS Wedding Planner





Three Month Wedding Planning Checklist

THREE MONTHS or EARLIER before the WEDDING

Set your WEDDING DATE
Interview or hire a professional wedding consultant, if desired, as soon as possible
Decide what kind of wedding you want to have (how formal or informal, number of guests, what time of day)
Determine your budget and decide how expenses will be split between the families
Determine how you'll keep records of any payments made
Choose the Church and reserve the date and time
Select and reserve the reception location, if it's at home arrange for any improvements needed
Work on the guest lists both for the Church and the reception
Choose and order your wedding gown
Select and reserve a photographer, videographer, florist, DJ or musician, and a caterer as soon as possible
Decide on a color scheme
Arrange your birth certificate for your marriage license and any change name requirements
Choose your maid of honor, best man, bridesmaids and groomsmen
Keep track of your important events
Choose your attendant's attire, shoes, accessories and schedule any fittings needed
Select and book a caterer, if you're not using a caterer begin to plan your wedding reception menu
Reserve the wedding night bridal suite
Select and order your wedding invitations, announcements, thank you notes, etc.
Reserve any rental items needed
Start planning your honeymoon, arrange for time off work if needed

TWO MONTHS before the WEDDING

Finalize your guest lists for the reception and church
Address your invitations
Purchase your shoes and accessories
Choose a bakery and order your wedding cake
Decide on reception decorations
Arrange for transportation on your wedding day
Check on local laws regarding blood tests or marriage license requirements
Shop for wedding rings
Determine where you'll live after the wedding, including looking for an apartment, if needed
Schedule an appointment with an OB/Gyne


ONE MONTH before the WEDDING

Mail your invitations
Keep the record of RSVPs received
Determine your hairstyle and make up
Schedule hair and make up appointments for the wedding day
Purchase wedding day accessories (guest book, etc.)
Check on the name change requirements (driver's license, SSS, insurance, bank accounts)
Finalize your menu for the reception
Check the gowns and tuxedos of the bridesmaids and groomsmen
Ask someone to serve as the guest book attendant
Pick all the wedding attire
Arrange for "getaway" transportation


TWO WEEKS before the wedding

Obtain the marriage license
Arrange for the final fitting of your wedding gown
Finalize the wedding flowers with your florist
Confirm reservations and details with your suppliers (photographer, make up artist, caterer, baker, etc.)
Start packing for the honeymoon
Contact guests who haven't RSVP'd
Plan reception room layout and seating, if applicable

THE LAST WEEK

Finalize your guest count and confirm with your caterer
Familiarize yourself with your guest lists
Confirm honeymoon reservation
Finish packing for honeymoon
Make sure all bills are paid through a week after your return from your honeymoon
Have the groom get a haircut
Get a manicure and a pedicure
Arrange for someone to return rental items after the wedding

THE WEDDING DAY

Start getting ready early and give yourself plenty of time so you're not rushed
Don't forget to eat a light, healthy breakfast
Make sure you have your marriage license
Entrust the rings to your maid of honor / best man
Take an emergency fix-it kit including safety pins, needle and thread, ibuprofen, breathe mints, make up, etc.
RELAX and ENJOY your BIG DAY!!!


So here it goes. I'll be posting more wedding preps for my other friends as well...:)









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